When addressing... (far left as formal to far right as informal tense)
- a woman much older than you = obasama, obasan, obachan
- a man much older than you = ojisama, ojisan, ojichan
Careful when you use them; otherwise, you may offend someone. Unless that person has some gray/white hairs, it may be better to use titles addressed to an older sister/brother which again are... - older sister/stranger = (O)neesan and/or (O)neechan
- older brother/stranger = (O)niisan and/or (O)niichan
using the '-sama' prefix is rather rare. You wouldn't call a stranger in such a highly received way would you? Older cousins are titled in this way as well.
A person getting offended (especially females) might be because those titles ("oba" and "oji") sound closely to addressing a granparenst which are... - female grandparent = (O)baasama, (O)baasan, (O)baachan
- male grandparent = (O)jiisama, (O)jiisan, (O)jiichan
notice it's only one letter/syllable away from the stranger title to a grandparent title (someone who's of senior citizen age)
以上
No comments:
Post a Comment